varostreamExplore the psychology of intimacy, erotic control, and intentional relationships with experienced hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika . Featuring expert guests and candid discussions, the show provides deep insights ranging from psychological discussions to practical lifestyle advice, uncovering the secrets of modern power exchange. Connect with us at weeklyhotspot.com . Episodes drop Mondays at 1 PM EST.
Episodes
Exploring the Male "G-Spot": A Beginner’s Guide to Anal
There's a spot about two inches inside you — smooth, slightly raised, and wired with a dense network of nerve endings — that most men have never been introduced to. Your Mistress would like to change that. In this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika take you by the hand (among other things) and walk you through everything a beginner needs to know about prostate play: the anatomy, the mindset, the prep, and the toys. Yes, we cover the "does it mean I'm gay?" question. And there's a cautionary tale about a doctor's appointment, an elevated PSA reading, and a very nervous two-week wait. Consider it your public service announcement — with lube. In this episode: The anatomy — where the prostate actually is, what it feels like, and why it can trigger full-body, non-penile orgasms Stigma and mindset — "I'm a straight guy… does liking anal play mean I'm gay?" Prep and hygiene — enemas done safely: how often, how much water, and why too much douching causes more problems than it solves Know your plumbing — the difference between the anal canal and the rectum, and why it matters for safe play External stimulation first — the perineum (taint) as a delicious preview, plus Kegel exercises to strengthen and stimulate Toys beyond dildos — how to choose a proper starter toy, whether you actually need a dildo or fuck machine, and condom/hygiene basics LUBE — the anus doesn't self-lubricate. Lube is not optional. Lube is your friend. The flared base rule — anything that goes in must have a way of coming back out. Non-negotiable A PSA about PSA — Mistress Olivia's true story from a treasured playmate: anal play two weeks before a physical, a PSA reading five times normal, and a specialist visit. Ms. Erika says if it feels good, play with it — life is short! Podcast blog: Weekly Hot Spot and Contact Us form Anal Training Phone Sex blog DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
26:19"Am I the Only One?" Kinky Desires You Think Nobody Else Has
Have you ever wondered: "Am I the only one who wants this?" This episode we explore that question. When you crave things that don’t fit in the tidy boxes men are taught their sexuality should come in, what do you do? Ask us! And, you did. This episode will help you realize you are far from alone. Episode Outline: The question behind the question: Why "am I the only one?" is really about being seen, understood, and accepted Power and Surrender: "I want to be at her feet while she works — is that too passive?" Rules and protocols in BDSM play "I want her mean, then sweet, then mean again" — emotional whiplash as a doorway to subspace, and the fantasy of being broken and remade Am I alone in fantasizing about… Serving a couple as the third who's used and dismissed Submitting to an authority figure — boss, teacher, therapist Do other people like… Being tricked or manipulated into submission Small penis teasing and humiliation Getting caught or exposed Wearing women's clothing without identifying as a sissy Craving anal play but worrying what it "means" The underlying pattern: "If people knew this about me, they'd be disgusted" — and the relief of hearing a Mistress say, "I know, and I like it too" Do you have questions about BDSM, kink or just want to talk to an experienced Mistress? Get in touch! DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Podcast blog: Weekly Hot Spot and the Contact Us form Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
29:35Smart Smut: Why Erotic Fiction Deserves Better (And Where It's Going)
Is erotica "lesser" writing? We don't think so — and neither does our guest, Allison Whaley, CEO of Bothered Stories. We talk about the craft and business of literary erotica: what separates smart smut from mere explicit content and why fiction lives in the imagination in a way video never can. We get into the good stuff: the long tradition of dismissing erotic literature or punishing authors and readers of spicy stories. For example, Penguin Books literally went on trial in 1960 for publishing Lady Chatterley's Lover. Wait until you hear the numbers for romance novels. TLDR romance props up the entire publishing industry yet considered inferior to “real” literature. Why? Whether you write it, read it, or just believe desire deserves to be taken seriously — this one's for you. In this episode: Why literary erotica gets dismissed (and why that's nonsense) What makes smut "smart" The craft: tease, tension, and payoff Kink and power dynamics done right Listen here, subscribe to Bothered Stories, and if a story in your imagination has been begging to be written — well, maybe this episode is the nudge you've been waiting for. Check out Bothered Stories Contact us: The podcast blog: Weekly Hot Spot and the Contact Us form DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
34:47From Tech Startups to Smut: Allison Whaley on Building Bothered Stories
What makes a successful tech executive walk away from the startup world to build… an erotica platform? This week, we talked with Allison Whaley, CEO of Bothered Stories, your destination for well-written smut. Allison shares what "taking desire seriously" actually means, and why the smartest smut is the smut that respects your brain as much as your body. Whether you're an entrepreneur, an erotica lover, or just curious about what happens behind the scenes of an adult-adjacent brand, this conversation will “bother” you in all the right ways. In this episode: The moment it all changed — when Allison realized she wanted to build something in the erotica space, and what gave her the nerve to actually do it "Wait, you're building what?" — how her professional circle reacted when she told them Startup skills, smutty applications — the skills from tech marketing that turn out to be really useful in erotica Smart, smutty stories — why the "smart" part of that tagline was so important to her The stuff nobody anticipates — how an adult-adjacent business differs from the startups she came from, in ways that surprised even her This is Part One of our conversation with Allison Whaley of Bothered Stories — the story continues next week. Bothered Stories DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Podcast blog: Weekly Hot Spot CONTACT US form on the podcast blog
31:14BDSM: What it means to wear her collar
In BDSM, being collared is a big deal. Two Femdoms share what collaring really involves: the emotions, the rituals, the commitment and what actually changes once it’s on. If you are a submissive who wants to be collared, this episode answers questions you might not even think to ask. What We Cover: What a collar actually represents — ownership, devotion, or something larger than both Collaring vs. scene-based submission: what changes when it becomes "official" The collar stages: training collars, consideration collars, and formal collars What accepting a collar feels like — the perspective of one collared sub after his collaring ceremony. The Dominant's side: deepened commitment, security, and trust Timing — there's no "right" moment, and why you shouldn't compare your journey to anyone else's Ritual and ceremony: elaborate event or private spoken promises — and why rituals matter to us humans How ritual establishes clear communication and shared boundaries "My collared submissive" — the shared language that instantly tells the world your dynamic Overt vs. covert collars: from leather dog collars to infinity necklaces and discreet anklets What actually changes after the collaring The paradox of BDSM: freedom in erotic slavery, and the enormous trust of handing your power over Get in touch: The podcast blog: Weekly Hot Spot and link to Contact Us form on the blog DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Remember: a collar doesn't make you owned. Your surrender does that. The collar is just the reminder that you already are.
29:07Listener Q&A: Navigating Power Exchange Together
We love our listeners! In this episode, we share our sessions with two committed couples looking to expand their intimacy. First, we help a long-term married couple transition from educational research to actionable, real-life power exchange. We help them navigate boundaries, mutual respect and aftercare. Then, we explore how a long-distance couple transitioning to living together uses delayed gratification and control dynamics to keep their unique spark alive. Discover the emotional vulnerability, honesty, and joy that builds a relationship both inside and outside the bedroom. For more resources and coaching, visit weeklyhotspot.com. Click on the Contact Us form to ask questions or leave us comments. Here’s how to get in touch with us: DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
29:12We turned him into a sissy!
This week, Mistress Erika and I are pulling back the curtain on how we create a sissy fantasy or roleplay. It starts with why it’s so hot to you. The transformation? The loss of control? That pink blush of humiliation? What excites you shapes everything that comes next. And because we adore you, we play around with roleplay ideas: the sissy training facility "intake session," the lost bet with double D consequences, the tropical resort getaway where your masculine clothes mysteriously didn't make the flight. Did you hear your favorite feminization fantasy? Let us know! DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Podcast blog: Weekly Hot Spot. Use this anonymous Contact Us form to send us comments or questions. Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
27:11The Kink Ledger: Why Some Subs Love Their Numbers
From cum loads to chastity days, some subs are tracking their kink like never before. Discover the fun, psychology, and games behind BDSM data. CumEatingMan is tracking cocks with a goal of a mile of dicks. Michael counts blowjobs, and more. Slut Pie freezes cum. Maxie ruins orgasms for a year. Meet the subs who love tracking their kink and the 2 Femdoms who love to keep track of those numbers. Do you track your kink numbers? We want to hear about it. Get in touch: Podcast Blog: Weekly Hot Spot Private Contact Us form allows you to get in touch and stay totally anonymous DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
30:37Gooning Fetish: From Edging to Brain Melt
This week, we're talking gooning - the art of losing yourself completely on the edge. The goon state is different from edging and we explain why. Do you crave this full-body surrender of this trance state? Oh and we’ve tucked in some erotic audio samples of us giving you gooning instructions and encouragement. Podcast Blog: The Weekly Hot Spot Contact Us form DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
26:11Feeling overwhelmed? Makeup Basics for Crossdressers
Listener Q&A today inspired by a sissy who says she has a full femme wardrobe but feels lost and overwhelmed with makeup. The ladies agree, there’s so much information out there, it’s difficult to know where to start. Start here! This episode goes over makeup basics for your transformation from M2F. Send an anonymous comment or question using the CONTACT US form on our blog for this podcast: Weekly Hot Spot. Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
28:00The Art of Feminine Photography: Pageant Posing Guide
This episode will help get you ready for the photos part of the upcoming Sissy Pageant. These photography techniques include essential lighting setups, camera angles, and phone settings that sculpt and elongate your silhouette. Part of your transformation is celebrating your feminine expression with joy and confidence. If you’re nervous or self-conscious, let’s change that feeling to self-celebration ... and make sure your photos reflect that! Connect with us: Podcast blog: Weekly Hot Spot Anonymous Contact Us form to ask questions that might even inspire an episode. DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
27:15The Psychology of Desire: Navigating Exploration
Today, we explore what happens when you feel a pull toward alternative dynamics but don’t yet have the vocabulary to articulate exactly what you want. You don’t need to know everything, leave that to us. This episode is in response to a listener who sent in a question using the Contact Us form on the podcast blog. We take you behind the scenes and discuss the art of listening for what isn’t being said, the emotional journey from vague longing to specific understanding, and why “I don’t know” is actually the perfect starting point for exploration. Erika shares her personal arc of discovery, and we offer guidance on how you can do the same. Visit the podcast blog: weeklyhotspot.com for more resources and to connect with us directly. Timestamps: [00:00] Welcome and listener questions [03:15] The “nasty” question: decoding vague desires [08:30] Reading between the lines: tone, pauses, and shame [15:45] Building your vocabulary for alternative dynamics [22:10] Erika’s personal journey: from curiosity to pure pleasure [28:00] The Hunter S. Thompson approach to life and exploration [31:00] How to connect with us DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Discrete Contact Us form on the podcast blog: Weekly Hot Spot Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
25:36The Art of Feminine Ritual & Embodiment
This week, we explore personal transformation from the inside out: how cultivating a feminine physical practice can deepen your sense of identity, softness, and submission. We discuss mindset shifts, somatic awareness, breathwork for pelvic floor health, and how daily routines become rituals of self-discovery. Whether you're new to feminization or refining your practice, this conversation offers practical guidance for every stage of the journey. Visit weeklyhotspot.com for unfiltered content, resources, and more. Get in touch: Private, anonymous contact us form on the podcast blog: Weekly Hot Spot. DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com and personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com and personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
29:55From Listener to Caller: Your First Private Audio or Text Session, Demystified
Thinking about taking the leap from listening to the show to booking a personalized, one-on-one audio consultation or private text session? In this episode, we pull back the curtain on exactly what happens when you connect with us privately — and we mean exactly. We start fast: the difference between public community chat and private sessions, how real-time availability works, and what you actually hear when you call Dispatch for the first time. Then we slow down and get into the real questions — the ones you've been too shy to ask. Want to send a question or comment? Use this easy and discrete CONTACT US form on our podcast blog: Weekly Hot Spot. Connect on DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Experienced Mistress blog Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Intelligent Phone Fantasy blog
38:55Ms Erika Crosses the Line: A Sensual First
After years of playful teasing and more than a bit of curiosity, Ms Erika finally crosses the line from safe friendship into the unknown of intimate surrender. Ms Becky joins us for this highly anticipated episode. Discover the psychology of trust and sensation. The conditions are perfect for a new kind of closeness and you get to hear all about it. This podcast offers an unscripted exploration of personal growth and the importance of communication and setting clear boundaries. You'll hear how emotional safety allows for a more meaningful and honest connection between partners. We hope you listen and learn what we did to create this special relationship. Send us a private message via the Contact Page on The Weekly Hot Spot blog. Reach out on DISCORD: LDWBecky, LDWErika, LDWOlivia Becky@EnchantrixEmpire.com Intelligent Phone Sex Calls KINKology with Ms Becky podcast and KINKologyPodcastBlog Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Intelligent Phone Fantasy
40:44First time jitters: same-sex intimacy and Ms Erika
What happens when two experienced hosts navigate uncharted intimacy together? Join Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika for a candid exploration of performance anxiety, queer curiosity, and the psychology of first-time same-sex connection. Discover how communication dissolves nerves when expectations are left at the door. [00:00] Introduction: Ms Erika Takes the Hot Seat [02:00] The Listener Question: Did You Do It Yet? [04:30] First-Time Jitters & Performance Anxiety [07:00] Expectations vs Reality: Media Portrayals of Intimacy [10:00] Communication & Power Dynamics [13:00] Learning vs Leading: A New Mindset [16:00] Exploring Differential: Suggestions Over Strictness [19:00] Orientation, Curiosity & Authentic Connection [22:00] Introducing Ms Becky: Next Weekend’s Episode [24:00] Closing Thoughts & Final Reflections For the full unfiltered archive, extended conversations, and our complete back-catalogue of female authority dynamics, visit weeklyhotspot.com. Questions for listeners:What mindset helps you most when stepping into an unfamiliar intimate experience? Announcing A new private, discrete form on The Weekly Hot Spot blog that allows you to leave comments and questions. It’s super easy and perfect if you don’t want to get in touch in other ways. DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
26:45Listener Q&A: The Psychology of Feminization Rituals
Today, we focus on a listener question about how to transition from private fantasies to structured feminine identity training. We examine the psychological impact of intimate apparel and show how we do guided personal transformation. Discover how rituals performed under female authority can lead to shifts in behavior and confidence. Episode Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and listener letter overview 03:00 The psychology of tactile transformation and garment rituals 07:00 Transition from male role and ego to a vessel of service and submission 11:30 How does audio domination work? 13:00 First steps 17:00 Getting into the feminine mindset including personal examples 21:00 Final thoughts Questions for listeners: What rituals do you do that help you feel more feminine and/or more submissive? ** Announcing **A new private, discrete CONTACT US form on The Weekly Hot Spot blog that allows you to leave comments and questions. It’s super easy and perfect if you don’t want to get in touch in other ways. DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
25:37My wife isn’t interested in kink; what do I do?
How do you navigate a relationship when one partner loves alternative intimacy and the other prefers things vanilla? In this listener Q&A, we explore how to communicate your desires honestly without pressuring your partner. Discover practical advice on bridging the lifestyle gap, managing expectations, and finding common ground. EPISODE TIMESTAMPS [00:00] – Introduction and reading today's listener dilemma. [05:15] – The psychology of desire: Understanding why your partner might hesitate. [12:30] – Communication blueprints: Scripts for opening up to a vanilla spouse. [18:45] – Finding middle ground: Compromises that respect everyone's boundaries. [25:10] – Final thoughts and how to submit your own questions. CONNECT WITH US Official Website & Blog: weeklyhotspot.com Submit Your Questions Ms Olivia: email - Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Personal blog: Experienced Mistress Ms Erika: email - Erika@EnchantrixEmpire,com Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
31:10Mistress, can I be a genuine sissy girl if I am hairy?
Today, we tackle a reoccuring question from lots of people in a feminization journey or sissy training program. It’s about body hair. There are various ways to say it but this seems to sum it up: “Mistress, can I be a genuine sissy girl if I’m hairy?” Mistress Erika noticed something online that inspired the episode. Several of our girls posted photos in pantyhose. They looked stunning. Then they apologized for their hairy legs. That sparked a conversation in our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. We knew we had to go deeper because many of our listeners were feeling the same conflict. Some of the topics include: Does a sissy always need to be smooth? Will a Femdom Mistress want every feminization journey to include shaving all body hair? What does shaving represent to you? Could this be a feminization ritual that helps to switch from male to female? What do we recommend if you have a partner who discovers your crossdressing secret and forbids the razor? What if you want to be femme but you love your beard? We use comments from ladies we know who share their thoughts, experiences, and worries about body hair. While we preach self acceptance, we know that can be difficult with pop culture and porn stereotypes about beauty standards. Our friend Genie delivers the truth: “Nothing on the outside changes the inside. You do not feel like a woman until you accept it internally.” Remember, we are available for personalized sessions on sissy training, feminization wisdom, and distance domination dynamics. Let’s explore your transformation together! DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
31:13How Pure Are you? Femdom Purity test results and more!
How pure are you, really? This week the results are in. We’re talking about the Rice Purity Test results, filthy confessions, and exactly how to use a silly internet quiz to unlock a new kind of sexual intimacy. Here is how the game works. You begin at one hundred. Every dirty, delicious thing you have done strips one point away. The closer to one hundred, the more "pure" you supposedly are. But we all know purity is just a word people use before they learn what their bodies are truly capable of. We asked listeners to take the test and send in their results. For the truly brave ones, they did the tests from the point of view of each Femdom Mistress. We were so curious to find out how you see us … and to learn more about you. This test becomes a springboard to share stories from our private lives and we end up modeling the communication we also recommend for you. Why? Because the most productive thing you can do for your sex life is to have these conversations outside the bedroom. Ms Erika suggests that you use this test as a sexual bucket list. If your number is still high, that only means you have not been properly trained yet. Mistress Erika and I excel at naughty pleasures. We can train you, tease you, and guide you through every act that drags that score lower and leaves your cock leaking with the evidence of your new exploits. Get in touch:DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
30:37Femdom Facesitting & Queening: From Pussy Worship to Sensual Domination
In the vanilla world, facesitting is oral sex but add in BDSM and Queening becomes part of the power exchange between a Femdom and her submissive. In this episode: The crucial difference between vanilla oral sex and BDSM power dynamics (hint: it’s about breath control, not just tongue control) How we use facesitting within rituals, protocols, and transformational training to propel a submissive deep into subspace The wicked tease of denial—panties, pantyhose, or booty shorts blocking full access until he’s begging properly Sensual versus strict domination: when to grind slow and sensual, and when to bounce-fuck his skull until he sees stars Integration with cuckold scenes, CBT, and chastity—because a locked cock and a smothered face make for a very obedient boy The eternal question: Is Queening a reward, a humiliation, or both? (We vote both.) Mistress Olivia shares the story behind her custom-made Queening chair—complete with bondage points and the perfect angle for a teasing footjob while he’s trapped beneath. Both ladies reveal their favorite positions (heels help, darlings), their personal styles of dominance, and the rookie mistakes that’ll get you kicked to the curb. Whether you’re a distance domination caller, a sissy in training, or a devoted pervert aching to be used, this episode is your guide to service from below. Get in touch: DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
30:41Should all sissies take a pussy free pledge?
What happens when a Femdom makes a sissy give up the last vestiges of masculine sexual entitlement? Today’s episode is all about the concept of taking a pussy free pledge for your Mistress. First, we’ll talk about the definition of being pussy free. The term pussy free pledge seems to originate from Reddit threads. Today, it’s a popular feminization protocol when used for sissy training and humiliation. Topics covered include: Is this the natural evolution of chastity and cock control, or something far more psychologically binding? Does a pussy free pledge deepen sissy submission and obedience to the control of Goddess? Is this performative kink or genuine surrender? Does giving up the expectation of access to pussy mean no to eating pussy? What about eating cum from her pussy - especially if you are a sissy cuckold husband? How does a Mistress handle designing a timeframe for being pussy free? Ms Olivia asks, if this is a way of formally retiring a skill the other person was “never good at anyway” when trying to be a heterosexual male? This episode is full of real-life Domme stories as the ladies discuss the nuances of this emasculating pledge. Have you ever taken a pussy free pledge or are you now curious about this? Get it touch: DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
33:44Remarkable cum eating stories that actually shock a Femdom
This week, we unload (pun intended) stories of several cum eaters who have some truly impressive numbers. Check out these cum junkies: Michael: who keeps track of various categories including cum loads and blow jobs. If you had to guess, how many cum loads do you think he has saved up? Betcha you’re not even close! The Cum Eating Man: Ms Erika created a spreadsheet to track all the metrics of her submissive. You’ll find out why we can’t get through various stories without laughing. DirtyD: He’s scheduled for his 26-load celebration tomorrow. Ms Olivia first met DirtyD as part of his slut-a-versary where 4 Femdoms put him through his paces with all kinds of naughty orders. We’re talking about true cum junkies but not everyone wants to lick up their own cum. For some people, the fantasy alone is enough. That’s okay. But, if you want to become a cum junkie, know that we can get you there with load after load! DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy LDW’s private, free, adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire
29:25Cum take the Purity Test challenge with your Favorite Femdoms
How ‘pure’ are you? That’s today’s topic as Ms Olivia and Ms Erika talk about the Rice Purity Test. This is a lighthearted look at the concept of being sexually pure. Test questions start in a delicate manner with things like kissing, dancing, grinding while clothed and then move to the hot stuff. The “less pure” questions involve oral, anal, orgies and even being arrested! The cop questions inspire an erotic story from Olivia. We also give YOU a challenge. We want you to take the Rice Purity Test and send us your score. Apparently the average score is 59%. Are you more pure or less pure than that? The second part of your assignment is to take the test 2 more times. Pretend you are me or Ms Erika and score the test how you think we would answer. Send us all three numbers. Rice Purity Test DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
31:25Your remarkable Feminization roleplay that you need!
We love when YOU inspire our podcasts. This episode is inspired by a wickedly creative email from Kristi and Davina this week. We both talk with Kristi and love her creativity and enthuastic joie de vivre. This particular feminization roleplay starts as a movie night and ends as a captive transformation. Picture it: Friday night, the three of us scrolling for a film. Kristi settles between us as we queue up Priscilla Queen of the Desert. A look passes between Erika and me—we’ve found the perfect candidate for the charity fundraiser at the local drag club. We invite our friend along, casually neglecting to mention the venue’s glittery nature.Then the trap closes. Backstage, our transformation begins. Male attire OFF and the delicious constriction of a corset laced tight, panties sliding up thighs, stockings and high heels. The makeup chair becomes way more than merely doing your makeup. Ms Olivia describes how she loves to do femme makeup. Ms Erika points out the trembling excitement as we coax out all those secret cravings. Yes, you’ve fantasized about pegging. About kneeling for oral service. About surrendering control completely. We turn her toward the mirror, watching as male features dissolve beneath our brushes. Does she panic? Beg to change back? Or does something awaken when she realizes her former self has been erased? Here’s where Kristi gets brilliant: what if we’re having so much fun that we simply decide the weekend never ends? What if we keep our newly minted pet indefinitely? Ms Erika closes with wisdom from Arthur Conan Doyle: "The best way of successfully acting a part is to be it." Don’t worry about your acting skills during roleplay. Just relax and become who you want to be. And remember—the best distance domination relationships linger even when the scene ends. Don’t let your boy clothes bully you back into hiding. Stay smoother, softer, and let us guide you. Ready to explore your own transformation? DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
29:59Stroke-a-Thon Secrets — How 15 Mistresses Break Your Control (Part 2)
In Part 1, we pulled back the curtain on our most explosive group event—the legendary Stroke-a-Thon returning Saturday, May 23rd at 8pm Eastern on our private Discord server. Today? We're going deeper into the psychology of surrender with three of the fifteen Mistresses: Ms Harper, Ms Kat and Ms Charlotte. Some women collect art. Mistress Harper plans on collecting cum shots, saying, "They're like bottle rockets all in a row. Pop, pop, pop" Ms Harper knows what she’s talking about from her experience in previous Stroke-a-thon events. She describes this as a favorite personal porn fantasy scenario and you’ll have to listen to the podcast to hear if she means for herself or for you! Mistress Kat has a unique take, calling this stroking meditation urging strokers to "Let our voices and commands wash over you.” Ms Kat is new to this Stroke-a-thon but she’s certainly not new to cock control. She’s intrigued about the upcoming conflict between competitive instinct and obedient surrender. Ms Charlotte has the best description of this stroking challenge, calling it Jerk Off Jenga. The ladies will try to make you cum and you try not to. Yep, jerk off jenga that is XXX hot, steamy, and sensual. Space constraints mean you need to act quickly.The Details: When: Saturday, May 23rd at 8:00 PM Eastern Where: Private Discord server Prize: Last Man Standing wins a free 60-minute session Entry: Strictly limited—act fast or spend the night regretting it Which Mistress will be the one to make you lose control? DISCORD: LDWErika, LDWOlivia, LDWHarper, LDWKat, LDWCharlotte Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress, email: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy, email: Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Harper’s blog: Fetish Phone Sex Blog, email: Harper@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Charlotte’s blog: High End Phone Sex, email: Charlotte@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Kat’s cock control profile, email: Kat@EnchantrixEmpire.com Who will be last cock standing? Who will crumble first under collective feminine command? The only certainty: you won't leave unchanged.
26:25The Stroke-a-thon Returns: Four Femdom Guests with Secrets to Edging Survival
We have a challenge for you if you are UP to the task. We’re doing a Stroke-a-thon! This is an interactive, multi-Mistress cock teasing event. It’s our most popular jerk off challenge because 15 sexy women try to make you cum, while you desperately try not to. The last cock standing get a FREE 60 minute session with one of the participating ladies. 2nd and third place finishers also get prizes and everyone loves the fun and energy so really there are no losers. Today’s episode features four friends. Mistress Becky and Ms Hunter are both Strok-a-thon veterans. Ms Bianca and Ms Hadley are new to the event but well versed in cock control and edging instructions. Of course, Ms Olivia and Ms Erika will be there. We open with Ms Becky of the KINKology podcast, who treats a stroking session like conducting a filthy orchestra—she’s the maestro controlling all those hard dicks. Ms Becky has been to earlier Stroke-a-thons and says that the energy of multi-Mistress mayhem with so much erotic talent is one space is one of her favorite things. Mistress Hadley is new to the Stroke-a-thon, but certainly not new to cock control. She gives a sneak peek in some of her JOI knowledge. Ms Hadley reminds us that the 15 Mistresses participating in Stroke-a-thon aren’t going to be fair, we’re going to try and make you cum, any way we can (hint: and we CAN). This year’s event is also the first one for Ms Bianca. She offers this advice: don’t worry if you are also a first time stroker; treat the Stroke-a-thon as erotic exploration. After all, sampling new Mistress flavors is the spice of submissive life—she is already enjoying the pre-game and promises a blast. Ms Hunter tells us about some of the psychological mindfucks that await and why this is both challenging and fun. As a veteran of previous Stroke-a-thons, Mistress Hunter points out that some chastity pets and sissies will be there even if they aren’t allowed to stroke. Awww, now that really isn’t fair. Imagine the ache! All the details including the 2 ways to qualify are on this Stroke-a-thon announcement on The Daily Cock. If you can’t access the blog, get in touch with any of us and we’ll get you all the info.The Details: When: Saturday, May 23rd at 8:00 PM Eastern Where: Private Discord server Prize: Last Man Standing wins a free 60-minute session Entry: Strictly limited—act fast or spend the night regretting it Which Mistress will be the one to make you lose control? Contact us: DISCORD: LDWErika, LDWOlivia, LDWBecky, LDWBiance, LDWHadley, LDWHunter Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress, email: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy, email: Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Becky’s blog: Intelligent Phone Sex Calls, email: Becky@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Bianca’s blog: Kinky Phone Fantasy, email Bianca@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Hunter’s blog: Intelligent Fantasies, email: Hunter@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Hadley’s Cock Control profile, email: Hadley@EnchantrixEmpire.com
26:23Your PENIS: size, sensitivity and secrets of a Femdom
Question: How much do YOU think about your penis? Ms Erika realized we haven’t done an episode ON da dick – oh sure, we talk a lot about what we (and you) DO with a penis but not the organ itself. So, today’s episode is all about your cock. DOES PENIS SIZE REALLY MATTER? Hear the Femdom answer to questions about penis size. Our comments might surprise you. Other questions we answer include: Will she like my cock? Am I big enough for her? Will I last long enough to please a woman? Am I a disappointment in bed? Since we do have a lot of experiences with all sorts of cocks, we talk about ways to increase or decrease penis sensitivity and how we use these techniques in Distance Domination. Some chastity pets love the idea of permanent chastity. Is that a real thing? We’ll answer that question and several questions from sissy subs who want to know about clitty shrinkage from extreme chastity training. Whether you have big dick energy, a more modest offering, or a cute little clitty tucked away, this episode is your masterclass in pensis 101. DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
32:40A Year of Ruined Orgasms
Imagine surrendering your pleasure completely—not through denial, but through a ruined orgasm. Now, imagine a full year of this feeling. That’s what happened to a treasured submissive and you’ll hear all about Maxxie in this episode. Mistress Erika decided she wanted to try out a year of ruined orgasms and volunteered her treasured pet Maxxie Petunia. In this episode you’ll find out: What a ruined orgasm is and how it differs from a full orgasm. The difference between orgasm denail and a ruined orgasm. Role of chastity in this adventure You’ll hear how Ms Erika used ruined orgasms not as punishment, but as a tool for transformation, leaving an indelible mark on Maxxie’s sexuality. We discuss the psychology behind this practice—is it chastity with a twist, or something entirely different when the body learns to leak instead of explode? After all, Maxxie’s journey wasn’t just about physical frustration; it was about leaning into her feminine journey: girly masturbation, embracing chastity discipline, and discovering an automatic instinct to ruin her own pleasure even when restrictions were lifted. This type of Dominant/submissive edge play is intense and not for everyone. It requires a foundation of trust and connection that developed over years of Distance Domination. Ms Erika shares what surprised her most about Maxxie’s behavior and how this experiment actually strengthened their bond. Are you curious about whether ruined orgasms could rewire your own desires? Wondering if you could handle the psychological challenge of trading explosive pleasure for lingering submission? Join us to find out what happens when you trust a Mistress to change your body’s most basic instincts. What would a year of ruined orgasms do to your mind? Get in touch:DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
29:48Are Kinky People Happier? The Psychology of Power Exchange
Are kinky people genuinely happier than their vanilla counterparts? It’s a provocative question we’re diving into on this week’s episode. Recent research suggests that practitioners of consensual BDSM often report higher emotional stability and relationship satisfaction than the general population. But here’s the fascinating nuance we explore: is this correlation or causation? Are we drawn to power exchange because we’re already resilient, or does the lifestyle actively create that resilience? Could the structured vulnerability of kink conversations be the cause? You hear a lot about “authenticity” but what is it really? What does it mean when you stop performing and start being? Your Femdom hosts tell stories from our personal lives and we highlight the experiences of several treasured pets: Slut Pie: Ms Olivia’s birthday celebration with slut pie and Ms Erika. Maxie: a full year of ruined orgasms sub C on his journey from “kinda kinky” to full surrender. There is a reason BDSM dungeons are called play spaces - that combination of curiosity without judgment that creates the unique combination of safety and excitement. Then there’s the Paradox of Freedom — that delicious counterintuitive truth where submission creates liberation. When you enter subspace, you narrow your focus; the endless, anxiety-inducing options of modern life dissolve into one clear directive. You give up agency and gain purpose. For many submissives, this controlled release becomes a form of self-care. Perhaps most importantly, we examine how kink forces us to become expert communicators. When you must articulate what you want and don’t want that's a learned skill. The Femdom and sub talk about hard limits, aftercare needs, deepest desires, life and more you develop emotional intelligence that translates far beyond the dungeon. It’s learned behavior — and yes, we’ll absolutely tell you if you’re not communicating well, because transformation happens in that ability to communicate honesty. So, are kinky people happier? The research — and our years guiding countless journeys through Distance Domination — suggests yes. Not because the whips and chains are magic, but because kink demands we show up fully, speak truthfully, and accept ourselves completely. When was the last time you gave yourself permission to be that authentic? Get in touch! DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
33:07The Invisible Collar: How Daily Life Control Transforms a Man into a Sissy
What if the most powerful collar you’ll ever wear is the one no one else can see? In this episode, we introduce you to something we call the invisible collar. While this episode is primarily aimed at sissies and those into feminization, some of the concepts work for anyone who is submissive and yearning to keep in touch with that side. Topics include: What is an invisible collar? Do you have to be a collared sissy to use these concepts? Are you nervous that your transformation will require a complete life overhaul and you’re not ready for that? How habit stacking can keep you in touch with your submissive and/or sissy feelings. We give specific examples of ways to anchor your submission to an automatic daily ritual that you already do. That’s the invisible collar in action. We give examples of how small, sustainable acts—a swipe of vanilla lip balm, typing emails in a girly font, or the secret swish of panties under your suit—are a reminder of your identity that keeps your feminine self “just under the surface” rather than buried and forgotten. But does it actually work? Can these micro-moments truly rewrite your neural pathways? Absolutely. We share real-world examples (yes, including that time we tracked Jasmine’s progress through spreadsheets until life exploded, forcing us to retool with grace). You’ll learn why accountability matters, and why praise is perhaps the most underrated tool in a Mistress’s arsenal for building sissy confidence. We also tackle the sticky reality of resistance. When routine becomes white noise, how do you keep the spark alive? The answer lies in curated unpredictability: mixing secure structure with creative “homework” like AI-enhanced image play or persona exploration that pushes boundaries while respecting your vanilla commitments. Whether you’re a curious beginner terrified of imbalance or a seasoned sissy craving deeper integration, this conversation offers a roadmap for wearing your collar 24/7—even if only we can see it. Get in touch:DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
37:38Revealing Mistress's dirty little secrets about BDSM and kink
We answer YOUR questions today focusing on your questions about us - as a Femdom Mistress, sex worker, Pro Domme, woman, and human. Here are the questions: "Do you really like all the kinks you engage in?" "What kind of session is challenging for you?" "What have we coerced people into IRL vs phone?” “Do Dominants ever keep parts of their personal lives or personalities separate from their dominant persona? Why? “What is something about you as a Femdom that most people would find shocking?” “Do Dominants ever feel vulnerable with their submissives?” “Have you ever said no to a session? Why?” “Is there anything we know about men by doing this that other women may not?” This is real talk from real women about sex, BDSM and kink, being a sex worker and what we think about YOU as we do: Humiliation sessions, cum eating training and Giantess scenes. Talk with you about BDSM terms SSC and RACK. SSC is safe, sane and consensual. RACK is risk aware consensual kink. How we feel if a session goes sideways or wrong in a session. And, how often men masturbate. Get in touch! DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Intelligent Phone Fantasy
38:13Where to meet Dominant women: real world dating for sissies (and everyone seeking power exchange)
This episode is for kinky people looking for face-to-face romantic connection with a Dominant Woman. Our conversation with our guest, Goddess Demi, was inspired by a question from a sissy but we think anyone looking for power exchange can find this useful. Have you tried to find kinky dating connections and gotten very discouraged? You’re not alone. We’re here to remind you that the work and growth you put in will pay off but it will likely take longer than you think or want. We offer specific suggestions where to find Dominant Women: BDSM Munch: casual environment to meet people that belong to a local BDSM group. Volunteer in the community - be of service before you have a partner, we all notice who does this. Queer spaces, drag shows and burlesque events. You might be deep into feminization or simply a submissive man yearning for a Female-led relationship, we want you to succeed. It’s important that you are happy and fulfilled so we try to use our experience to help you find what you’re looking for. Get in touch! DISCORD: LDWDemi, LDWErika, and LDWOlivia Goddess Demi Demi@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease Mistress Erika Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Olivia Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
31:25Sissy dating: listener wants help with a new relationship with Goddess Demi
Navigating dating is challenging. It can be even more difficult if someone is kinky. Today’s episode is inspired by a sissy dating question brought to us by Goddess Demi. Ms Demi, joins the podcast to explore this and add her advice. Here’s the inspiration and the question from a sissy who just got out of a long term marriage. Sissy has met a wonderful woman who is willing to explore being with a submissive sissy. NOW WHAT? Today’s topics include: The full background from Goddess Demi.What does TRY really mean? What if one person wants monogamy and the other does not? How does a submissive sissy express desires without topping from the bottom? Is it possible for a woman who says she is not naturally dominant to learn to be a Femdom? What is power exchange? What are some Femdom relationship power dynamics? When is a good time to disclose kinky desires with a new partner? What does emotional safety and vulnerability mean in the context of exploring kink? Goddess Demi, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika all have experiences dating while kinky so while the sissy sent the question that inspired this episode, many of the comments can apply to others navigating kink and dating. Are YOU struggling with when to disclose your kink? Are you a sissy who is trying to find a partner?T his episode is for you – and we want to hear about your experiences. DISCORD: LDWDemi, LDWErika and LDWOlivia Goddess Demi Demi@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease Mistress OliviaOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
35:13Female-led Relationship Coaching
Today we discuss some of the most common questions about female-led relationships. What is FLR? How do you help your partner to embrace being dominant? Where do you find women that might want to be in charge? As Femdoms, both hosts embrace FLR personally and give solid suggestions for submissive men that want to move from fantasy to daily reality. Topics include: Defining FLR - what it is, what it isn’t and why the myth might be attractive but unattainable. Four levels of control and what that means in a relationship. How to decide if you should bring up FLR to your vanilla partner. What to say to begin the conversation about wanting her to be in charge. How to figure out what sort of submissive you are - sexual sub, service sub, something else? You’ll hear personal stories from the private lives of Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika as well as examples from people they coach on phone or text sessions. Remember, if you’re interested in private sessions - FLR coaching or other kinky sessions - both ladies are available for one-on-one conversations where our advice is tailored specifically to you and your needs. Get in touch: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
29:58Spring Sissy Sale: limited-time SALE of Femdom assignments and audios
Despite the huge snowstorm on the east coast, spring will be here eventually and we want you to Spring into Submission with our limited-time sissy sale and feminization intensive. For years, we’ve heard from listeners who’ve explored feminization fantasies in private but felt unsure about taking the next step. You want to do something, yet private sessions feel too intense or you don’t have privacy. We understand! That’s why we’re announcing this sale. Our entire sissy and femme catalog is on sale at 10-20% off exclusively at Phone Sex Assignments. New to structured sissy training? Start with the Sissy Quiz and In-Depth Probe package. We get to know you through guided questions and a series of intimate emails. It’s low pressure but high-impact. If you’re craving accountability, our 30-day Feminization Challenge (available in both sissy and general feminization tracks) offers daily structure with an optional Trance Affirmations audios. Check out How To Masturbate Like A Girl: Pillow Humping—a technique that doubles as behavioral conditioning, ensuring you don’t revert to "boy habits" while pursuing that elusive sissygasm. One of the most colorful and fun items: Your Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume, now featuring Goddess Demi in a collaborative package where you see your skills, sluttiest achievements and more. Finally the 2025 Feminization Calendar will be 50% off and after this sale it will disappear from the store. SALE DATES: March 1 - April 1 Products with 20% discount 30 Day Feminization Challenge from Ms Erika and Ms Olivia 30 Day Feminization Challenge Bundle from Ms Erika and Ms Olivia 30 Day Sissy Challenge from Ms Erika and Ms Olivia 30 Day Sissy Challenge Bundle from Ms Erika and Ms Olivia How To Masturbate Like A Girl: Pillow Humping by Mistresses Olivia and Erika Sissy Quiz & In-Depth Probe Package with Mistresses Erika and Olivia Audios: Sissy Trance Affirmation from Ms Erika and Ms Olivia Feminization Trance Affirmation from Ms Erika and Ms Olivia Products 10% Off Your Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume Special Pricing and Removal 2025 Feminization Calendar Clearance price is 55.00. Get in touch! Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
33:39Your Cuckold Personality Quiz! Which one fits you?
What kind of cuckold are you? Take the Cuckold Quiz to find out what your answers say about you. Both Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika are experienced in all kinds of cuckold fantasies, including their lived experience. In this episode, they explore everything from the Visual Voyeur with the hotwife to the Sissy Cuckold husband … and everything in between. There are 12 questions to the quiz, and they go over each question and the multiple-choice answers. They don’t tell you the 7 archetypes of cuckolds, but you might infer some of the types by the quiz questions. Both ladies know that every cuckold relationship is unique with nuances that might not apply to other couples, but there are some broad categories. When you take the cuckold quiz, you email your answers. You’ll get exciting emails from both Mistresses, and then you’ll receive your quiz results. But wait, there’s more! You’ll also receive an explicit 2 Mistress audio about your cuckold personality and why this is so hot for the woman involved with you. Imagine listening invas two women who love cuckolding get inside your head and whisper precisely what makes you tick. Then, of course, tease you with it so your cock throbs with excitement. Are you ready to explore? Here’s where you can get our Cuckold Quiz! DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
16:24The Psychology of Sissy Bondage Wear
Have you ever considered that the silk against your skin might be doing more than just making you pretty? That those tight laces aren't merely decorative—they're a bridge between your body and your submission? That’s the topic of this week’s episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Sissy Bondage Wear. Clothing has always been a tool of control. From Victorian tight-lacing to modern locking corsets, what we wear shapes not just how others see us, but how we experience our own submission. Ms Erika brought this topic to the table after an inspiring conversation about how bondage wear serves as a constant reminder of "who and what you are" when you're in your sissy headspace. It's the difference between simply wearing a dress and being held by it. As Femdoms, we’ll explain the tension between restriction and reward—the "princess paradox," if you will. Can a sensual Dominatrix wield a hobble dress with the same effectiveness as a strict protocol Mistress? (Spoiler: absolutely, but the psychological impact shifts.) We discuss how locking ankle straps, spreader bars, and even DIY budget-friendly options like repurposed pantyhose can create that coveted feeling of helpless feminization without breaking the bank. Finally, we talk about our favorite locking mechanisms, from padlocks to numbered tags that look like tiny zip ties. We emphasize safety when doing solo distance domination play. This conversation is for the sissy who wants to understand how a simple Ace bandage cincher or hobbled heels can shift sissy training into a profound feminization experience. Have you discovered the transformative power of restrictive feminization? What's your essential piece of sissy bondage wear—the item that instantly drops you into submission? If this episode leaves you aching to explore your own wardrobe of restraint, remember that Erika and I'm available for private phone and text sessions where we can design your perfect sissy bondage protocol. We’re both on DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com TwiterX: @MistressOlivia1 Blue Sky: @Ms Olivia Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com TwitterX and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrix Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Until next time… stay pretty, stay sexy, and stay bound to us.
33:00Long distance Femdom Tasks for cock control, submissive men and sissies
Today, Ms Olivia and Ms Erika explore the psychology behind power exchange and erotic control — not just physical dominance, but the power of ritual, obedience, and mental submission. Whether you're craving structure in your submission, training under a strict sissy regime, or locked in chastity this conversation will shift how you think about distance domination. We share real, actionable tasks — the kind that don’t just test your body, but rewire your mind. From the cock control timing torment that turns every hour into a countdown of desperation, to the sensual restraint of the silk cage ritual, we reveal how simple instructions — followed with precision — become deeply erotic acts of surrender. But it’s not just about cock control. We dive into submissive mindset work — the kind that stays with you long after the task ends. Imagine standing naked in front of the mirror, stroking yourself to the edge while confessing aloud, “I am owned. I am denied. I am Hers.” That’s not just arousal — it’s transformation. And then there’s the ultimate mindfuck: writing a 500-word fantasy about your orgasm — vivid, desperate, explicit, Sounds fun? Well, wait until you hear what we want you to do with your writing! For those deep in sissy training, we don’t hold back. We introduce behavioral conditioning through taste and ritual — yes, you read that right. What happens when strawberry lip gloss becomes a trigger for oral servitude? When vanilla extract floods your mouth and your cock throbs in lace? We talk about Pavlovian arousal where your daily life discreetly but effectively reinforces your feminization. This episode isn’t just about tasks — it’s about why they work, how they deepen submission, and the joy a Mistress finds in knowing her sub is squirming through beautifully crafted torment. We also share personal stories — what it’s like to assign these tasks, to witness the vulnerability, the growth, the delicious frustration on the other end of the line. And we leave you with a challenge: What would you do if your Mistress gave you a writing assignment… and you hate writing? (Spoiler: The torment is the point.) If this sparks something in you — curiosity, arousal, or that urge to kneel — we’re here. Private phone and text sessions are where the real magic happens. Visit Ms Olivia's blog page titled NEW HERE to begin. Because between calls? We’re busy. But when you book a session — everything changes. You get immediate, undivided attention. And trust me, you’ll feel it. So listen, reflect, and maybe — just maybe — take on one of these tasks. Then tell us how it felt. Get in touch: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Remember: Obedience isn’t about perfection. It’s about willingness — your willingness to be shaped, teased, and guided. And we so want to know how you do. Tune in. Train well. And until next time — happy submitting.
36:20The Sissy Switch: Unlocking the girly girl within
Can a dominant woman rewire a man’s identity? Today, the two Femdom hosts talk about their experiences with what they call a sissy switch – an often invisible switch that flips “maybe” into something like “make me your cum slut sissy princess.” As you likely know, we never hand you a tidy definition; instead we’re all about using a definition as a starting point and then exploring various nuances. Each person and each D/s relationship is unique but you’ll likely hear things that you recognize from your own experiences with coerced feminization and sissy play with a Mistress. We share personal stories of subs who have experienced ah ha moments during feminization. This paradigm shift can be nudged a bit by a Mistress, or you might stumble into it, but likely there will be something that changes the way you see yourself. Have you ever been on the edge of discovery and suddenly the girly girl awakens in a really intense way? We ask for your stories and experiences and will do a followup podcast to share the comments. Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
23:34The Art of the Good Sub Orgasm: When you’ve earned your release
Have you ever thought about why some orgasms feel better than others? Today, we talk about those submissives who love to please Mistress and then earn a good sub orgasm. Topics include: Why does it feel so good to beg for an orgasm? What’s the difference between a regular orgasm and a good sub orgasm? BDSM, power exchange and how Mistress flips the script on your regular masturbation routine. What does a Femdom use to make you earn your orgasm? - tasks, tease and delay, edging, flawless submission. What is the role of positive reinforcement in power exchange? Cock control versus JOI The surprise orgasmThe role of scheduled orgasms in chastity training. We share stories about people who love to feel that rush of obedience and for some that obedience is almost more exciting than the orgasm! Only kidding, the orgasm still feels amazing! We also talk about what we, as Femdoms, use to judge whether you’ve earned it. Above all, this episode gives you a peek into what we consider makes a good sub. Now remember, each Mistress is different, we’re simply talking about our own desires and expectations. Does earning a “good sub” orgasm fire you up?Let us know! Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
29:40The year of the sissy: How intentional feminization becomes self-care
Today’s episode explores a new way to think about New Year’s resolutions and your feminization or sissy training. We never want to ignore the sex and sluttiness but what if there’s ‘more’ available? There’s a common myth that all sissy play (and a lot of feminization experiences) need to have lots of humiliation and submission. Oh sure, that IS often part of it (and a very fun aspect of sissy training) but does everything have to be about sex? Sexual arousal and pleasure might be what draws you in but we are seeing something beyond the sexual humiliation and erotic power exchange. Today we talk about intentionally choosing femininity as a way to decompress from all the pressures of the masculine stuff in your life. We want you to consider how creating a sanctuary of softness can be an antidote to the constant performance of masculine demands. The focus usually is on the performative aspects of feminization - the dressing, the shopping, the makeup, the rituals and protocols. And make no mistake about it, we LOVE that stuff but some of the psychological benefits happen in long-term transformation that is not shown in things like sissy porn or Femdom erotica. Are you ready for The Year of the Sissy? Let us know! Get in touch: DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia olivia@enchantrixempire.com Blog: Experienced Mistress erika@enchantrixempire.com Blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
25:23Power exchange dynamics: Femdom guide to using BDSM for personal growth.
Happy New Year, to all our kinky friends! Welcome to the first episode of The Weekly Hot Spot for 2026. We’re kicking off the year with a topic close to both our hearts: using BDSM and power exchange as powerful tools for personal growth. We explore how the structure, control, and conscious practice inherent in Femdom dynamics create a unique framework for transformation. For example, have you ever considered how sissy training or cock control can build emotional resilience? Or how the communication skills honed in Distance Domination can revolutionize a submissive's life outside of play? We both share real-world stories from our phone sex sessions, revealing how submissives often experience profound growth in non-sexual areas. We discuss the concept of conscious power exchange and why setting intentions is often part of our leadership as sensual Mistresses. This episode is for anyone curious about how submission can be a form of self-mastery – a mental and emotional workout that builds strength, vulnerability, and profound self-awareness. We also flip the script and talk about how our submissives impact us. From creative collaboration to intellectual stimulation, the right dynamic doesn't drain our energy; it amplifies it. It’s a true exchange. We even share a beautiful piece of wisdom from a submissive that perfectly captures the growth mindset we champion: "Don’t kid yourself, but don’t kick yourself." If you’re ready to see your kink journey as a path to becoming a better, more intentional person, this episode is your guide. Power exchange dynamics offer a potent and practical framework for evolution, making this the perfect conversation to start your new year. OR, you couldn’t just come for the kinky fun! LOL We want to hear from you! How has submission helped you grow as a person? Share your experiences with us. As mentioned, both Mistresses are available for private sessions. Whether you’re seeking a transformative Distance Domination relationship, a strict Femdom session, or some smart, sexy conversation, we’d love to connect. Get in touch and let us focus our undivided attention on you. Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com. BLOG: Experienced Mistress Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com. BLOG: Intelligent Phone Fantasy DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Here’s to an amazing, growth-filled 2026 for us all!
30:15Humor is the ultimate power play for Femdom Mistresses with playful, dirty minds.
Have you ever laughed while you were being punished? What if humor wasn’t a distraction from power exchange — but the sharpest tool in a Mistress’s arsenal? In this final episode of The Weekly Hot Spot for the year, we have a conversation that’s equal parts kink, wit, and wisdom as your Femdom hosts dive into one of the most underestimated forces in Femdom: a playful, dirty, delightfully twisted sense of humor. It’s not about breaking character—it’s about deepening it. We explore how laughter disarms, connects, and intensifies control. Can a stern command that makes a sub blush and giggle be the ultimate psychological play? Absolutely. And they’re not afraid to prove it. Enter: Smutlettes — the filthy, funny, made-up words born from kink, chaos, and our sometimes twisted imaginations. Inspired by comedian Rich Hall’s sniglets, these linguistic gems give names to the unspoken moments of domination and submission: Cockstrocity — the crime scene left after unauthorized release. Spanknesia — when a hard session wipes your name from memory. Pantyphoria — the euphoric rush of a sissy’s first lace panties. Femdomnesia — forgetting you’re a CEO the second your Mistress texts “kneel.” From socknosis to kinkfetti, from gluteosis to wanktuary, this episode is a masterclass in how humor shapes intimacy, builds trust, and keeps power dynamics alive—even outside the session. But it’s not just jokes. It’s strategy. It’s connection. It’s kinkrocity — when your kink list outgrows your resume. Drop your own Smutlette in the DMs — because kink should be smart, sexy, and yes… ridiculously fun. This isn’t just an episode. It’s a spanktuary for the soul, a flogtopia of ideas, and a clittocracy of wit.End the year with a smirk. And remember — the most powerful Femdoms don’t just command… we make you laugh while you’re trembling. Olivia@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Erika@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
32:31BDSM Trends for 2026
What does the future of kink look like? Your Femdom hosts have some thoughts (of course we do!). Today, we explore how technology, psychology and a growing desire for authentic connection are reshaping the landscape of Distance Domination, phone sex, and personal power exchange. The conversation kicks off with the elephant in the room: Artificial Intelligence. While AI is transforming adult content, we dissect why it will amplify, not replace, the demand for genuine human connection. The future belongs to bespoke sessions where smart, sexy conversations create a nuanced and deeply intellectual power dynamic. This leads us to the rise of conscious kink—a significant shift from purely physical acts to focusing on the entire emotional and psychological arc of a session, emphasizing mutual growth and healing. We delve into specific, evolving practices within our niches. For those interested in feminization and sissy training, the narrative is expanding. It’s moving beyond humiliation into a holistic form of self-care, a curated journey of aesthetic refinement and becoming one’s most authentic self. For cock control enthusiasts, we explore the growing popularity of post-orgasm control (POC), which leverages the vulnerable period after climax for deepening training, affirmation, and connection. We also discuss trends for managing modern life’s stresses. Look for micro-submission to become a tool for stress management, where small, consensual acts of surrender provide structure and relief from burnout. Furthermore, gamified surrender will turn obedience into a compelling, personalized quest for a Dominant’s approval. The episode also covers insights from sexologist Sofie Roos on the importance of communication and what happens as sex becomes less taboo. We examine the exciting emergence of neurodivergent-affirming kink, creating scenes that thoughtfully accommodate sensory sensitivities and communication styles. This episode is for anyone involved in Femdom, GFE, or anyone curious about the future of BDSM and kink. It’s a conversation about connection, intelligence, and the evolving art of domination. If our discussion sparks your curiosity about a personalized journey, we’d love to get to know you better. We both offer private phone sex and text sessions designed for real, transformative connection. If you're new to this world, visit the 'NEW HERE?' page on Mistress Olivia’s blog, Experienced Mistress, for a gentle introduction to the process. What trends are you seeing? We’d love to hear your thoughts. Remember, while technology like AI is here to stay, it will never replace the intimacy and power of a genuine, human-led dynamic. It only gives us more sophisticated tools to master your mind and command your surrender. DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistress Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com
35:44The Psychology of Advanced Devotion: Testing Your Limits in Power Exchange
What if the ultimate test of your submission wasn't just about surrendering control, but about consumption? In this episode, we explore the intricate psychology behind fluid devotion, advanced obedience rituals, and task-based conditioning. We examine how to bridge the gap between fantasy and physical reality, reframing intense tasting boundaries not as a hurdle, but as a part of behavioral discipline. CONNECT WITH US Submit Your Questions on Discord: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Official Audio Player: The Weekly Hot Spot on Spreaker Official Website: weeklyhotspot.com Connect in Our Private Network: Enchantrix Empire
30:055 Cliches about being submissive
We’ve all heard them—the recycled lines, the oversimplified tropes, the porn-ified fantasy of what submission “should” look like. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika tear down the most persistent clichés about being submissive. No ball-busting today. Just myth-busting. From the fantasy of total surrender to the myth that all subs crave pain, humiliation or degredation, we talk about our top 5 myths about being a submissive man—and exposr the misconceptions that keep men from truly understanding their power, their boundaries, and their joy in kink. This isn’t about performance. It’s about truth. BDSM Myth: Submissives Have No Power Spoiler: That’s not just wrong—it’s dangerously misleading. We’ll tell you why. Kink Myth: “Being Submissive Means Blind Obedience” Ah, the classic “do anything you want” fantasy. It sounds hot in theory but in practice saying that is often a red flag for an experienced Mistress. You'll hear why. Myth of Total Power Exchange: “The Power Dynamic is 24/7” Let’s be real: Total Power Exchange (TPE) is rare. And even when it exists, it rarely looks like the movies. In real-world dynamics, power shifts with context. BDSM Myth: “Submissives Are Weak or Broken” Submission is not a lack. It’s a choice. It takes strength to say: “Here are my limits.” or “This is what I crave.”and “Help me explore who I am.” That’s not a weakness. That’s emotional intelligence. That’s courage to speak your truth in a world that tells men to stay silent. D/s Myth: “Submission Is the Same for Everyone” And one of the biggest clichés of all? That there’s one “right” way to be submissive. There isn’t. Some thrive on verbal degradation. Others need praise and affection. Some crave strict cock control. Others long for sensual guidance. There are many ways to express submission: feminization, primal service, humiliation, and/or worship. Remember, your submission is yours. As listener and collared sub Slut Pie puts it: “At first, I thought it was all or nothing. Total loss of control. But now I see—it’s not about losing myself. It’s about finding myself, one session at a time.” Final Thoughts: Submission Is a Conversation. Kink isn’t static. It’s dynamic. It evolves. So question the clichés. Don’t let porn, stereotypes, or shame dictate your path. You have power. You have limits. You have a voice. Use them. We want to hear from you: Which cliché hit home the most? Share your thoughts. Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistress Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
31:30The Secret Thrill of Humiliation: Why Surrender Feels So Good
Have you ever wondered why being put down turns you on? Why a Domme’s laugh, a sharp comment, or a teasing jab about your size leaves you harder than ever? You’re not alone — today we do a dive deep into one of kink’s most misunderstood, yet profoundly powerful dynamics: erotic humiliation. We explore: How something that sounds painful — even shameful — becomes a gateway to ecstasy. How we, as Femdoms, use humiliation to unlock subspace. Why does being laughed at, judged, or playfully degraded feel so right for so many submissives? And crucially — what separates consensual, joyful humiliation from emotional harm? Ms Olivia opens the conversation with a powerful truth: submission is freedom — and so is humiliation, in its own paradoxical way. It’s about trust, surrender, and transformation. We hear from real listeners like SissyTeri Cum Slut, whose arousal skyrocketed after a casual SPH comment post-blowjob: “She said, ‘It’s easy when you’re not too big’ — and holy shit, did that make me feel amazing. Better than the orgasm.” We break down Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) as a common entry point — not just as a fetish, but as a psychological key that unlocks deeper submission, feminization, and sissy training. From Pee Wee to Sissy Missy, many of today’s most devoted sissies started here. But we also issue a vital warning: humiliation is not a kink to wing it with. Unlike trying a new toy or JOI, it touches your core identity. Benji shares how bringing it up with a partner backfired — resulting in real, unsexy humiliation. That’s why consent, context, and aftercare are non-negotiable. You must be seen, judged, controlled — and still desired. And here’s the twist: humiliation doesn’t have to be mean. It can be joyful. smallPenisJumpingJack loves CFNM games where women laugh with him, not at him. simp4demi craves the sound of his Goddess laughing as she puts him in his place — because it means he’s hers, fully used, fully accepted. This episode is about joy-centered domination, where teasing feels like inclusion, not exile. Where “Awww, look at you trying so hard with that tiny lil thing. Bless your heart” isn’t cruelty — it’s connection. We end with a message: Enjoying humiliation doesn’t make you weird. It makes you human. But don’t navigate it alone. Seek guidance. Learn the nuances. And remember — sometimes, laughing at yourself is the sexiest thing you do all week. Listen now. Reflect. Then DM us: What’s your first memory of humiliation turning you on? Have you ever tried to explain this to a partner? What do you wish you’d known sooner? Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistress olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
31:27Sissy secrets:The Fear of Being Found Out – Keeping Your Kink Private
Have you ever had (or maybe still have) this fear: What if they find out? What will they think about me? You’re not alone. Today we take a dive deep into one of the most common — yet rarely spoken about — fears in the kink and sissy communities: the terror of being discovered. Whether it’s a partner stumbling on your secret drawer, a family member finding your messages, or simply the crushing weight of “what if someone knows?” — this conversation is for every person who’s ever hidden a part of themselves out of fear. We explore the emotional roots behind this fear: The dread of loss — relationships, respect, livelihood The sting of judgment — from family, society, or the toxic myth of “real masculinity” The existential spiral of self-identity collapse — “Who am I if this comes out?” But we don’t stop at the problem - we’re all about solutions.This episode is packed with practical, real-world strategies to protect your privacy and reclaim your power: Secure storage for clothes, toys, and keepsakes Safe shopping tips — from PO boxes to gift cards and clean digital trails Digital hygiene — encrypted emails, burner phones, private browsers, and why never to use Gmail or your real name online Compartmentalization rituals — transitioning in and out of your sissy self with grace and control Low-risk disclosure — how and when (or if) to share your truth — and why it’s your choice, not an obligation. We also talk about building your inner foundation — transforming shame into sacredness, secrecy into self-care, and fear into freedom. Because here’s the truth: Your femininity doesn’t need permission to exist. Your submission doesn’t need validation to be powerful. And you don’t need to come out to everyone to live authentically. Whether you're deep into sissy training, exploring femdom, or simply navigating the quiet tension between your inner world and outer life — this episode will leave you feeling seen, safer, and stronger. Tune in. Breathe deeper. And remember — you are not broken. You are becoming. DISCORD: LdwOlivia. and. LdwErika Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistress olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com
42:24Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire with Dr. Jaime Grant
What does great sex really mean? And why is the simplest question – “What do you really want?” – often the hardest one to answer? In this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jaime Grant – researcher, LGBTQ+ advocate, and author of Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire – for a conversation that dismantles shame, celebrates pleasure, and redefines intimacy from the inside out. This isn’t just a talk about kink or technique. It’s a deep dive into the emotional archaeology of desire – how shame, silence, and societal scripts keep us from claiming our deepest pleasures, especially when those desires feel taboo. Dr. Grant opens with a powerful admission: she got into this work because she was a “liar” – performing a version of herself to survive a repressive Irish Catholic upbringing. “We all develop a liar,” she explains, “and that liar shows up in our sexuality.” Whether you’re a submissive wrestling with guilt, a sissy navigating feminization, or someone whose fantasies clash with their identity, this episode meets you where you are – without judgment. The conversation turns to the “purge cycle” – that all-too-familiar pattern where submissives and sissies throw away their toys and clothes in shame, only to rebuild their collections once again. Dr. Grant reframes this not as failure, but as desire breaking through. Then comes the practical magic. Dr. Grant introduces her “Name Tag Exercise” – a fun exercise tool where you introduce yourself not by your job or role, but by three words that describe your core desires. Words like slut, rope enthusiast, curious, neuro spicy, bootlicker, orgasm controller. Mistress Erika shares hers: “Fun. Curious. Obey.” Mistress Olivia, ever the wordsmith, lands on “Control as Connection,” “Intellectual Eroticism,” and “Transformation.” She reveals how power exchange, for her, is a form of artistic expression – a “ballet” of sensual influence – and how she’s turned on more by minds than bodies, drawn to “the space between words.” But the mapping goes deeper. Dr. Grant applies desire mapping to orgasm control, chastity, and tease/denial – not as games of endurance, but as rituals of presence. “If you’re just going through the motions,” she says, “it’s choreography, not connection.” True power play begins when you’re grounded in what actually moves you – the raw, vulnerable parts of yourself that turn you on because they feel dangerous. Fantasy, she insists, is not disloyalty – it’s breadcrumbs. Your roleplay scenarios, dark power exchanges, and gender-bending dreams aren’t distractions from real desire – they are the map. And if someone tries to police your inner world? “You’re with the wrong person." The episode closes with a radical truth: You already have everything you need. The voice of shame – that internal critic whispering, "You shouldn’t want this" – that voice is not yours. It’s the echo of a priest, a parent, a culture. Desire mapping helps you trace that voice back to its source, so you stop obeying it and start honoring your sacred material: your body, your history, your truth. If you’ve ever felt like an imposter in your own pleasure… If you’ve silenced a fantasy because it didn’t fit your identity… If you’ve wondered why surrender feels so terrifying – and so freeing……this episode is your invitation to map your desire – not apologize for it. Tune in. Listen closely. And start asking yourself the question that changes everything:What do you really want? Books by Dr. Jaime Grant on Amazon Reach out to Dr. Grant for readings or coaching at jaimemgrant@gmail.com and catch her podcast at www.justsexpodcast.com Contact us: Mistress Olivia: Email: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com. Twitter X: @MistressOlivia1. Blue Sky: @MsOlivia Blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika: Email: Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Twitter X and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrix Blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy MEET DR. JAIME GRANT Friday, November 21 at Red Emma's Bookstore in Baltimore Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana do exercises from the book and share bits of their kink highlight reels. Wednesday evening, January 21, 8pm at the Washington Hilton Hotel, as part of the Creating Change Conference. Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana read from Kink for Dummies and share tips. From late January through mid-March, Dr. Grant will be at the SketchPad Artist's residency in Hyannis Mass, offering Desire Mapping open studios every Saturday. Book readings on the Cape in this period TBD. Friday April 24th @ 7:30pm, at Charis Books in Atlanta, Dr. Grant will talk about Kink for Dummies with Ignacio Rivera, technical editor on the book, and two kink story contributors, Asha Leong and tia marie.
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